Nowadays, it seems that people feel entitled to just about everything. What grounds this feeling of entitlement seems to be none other than a strong desire for the thing in question. This new view of entitlement seems to be that a persistent desire over time becomes an entitlement simply in virtue of its persistence. Notice that entitlement thus understood is not even about to what a person in fact needs in order to live, but merely what about what a person continues to want and want and want. Needless to say, entitlement thus understood is most problematic.
Surely no one is owed something merely because she or he has a strong and abiding desire for it. Indeed, this conception of entitlement very much trivializes the humanity of others.
What intrigues me, though, is that this conception of entitlement effectively undermines the sentiment of gratitude; for nowadays, people take themselves to be getting what they are owed, since they have a persistent and intense desire for it.
Of course, strictly speaking, entitlement does not preclude gratitude; for there is a multitude of ways in which we can do for others what we ought to do for them. We can, for one, do so most begrudgingly. Or, for another, we can do so with great joy, taking enormous delight in being able to do for the other what we owe them. Gratitude is owed in this latter instance.
Still, a spirit of entitlement is having an adverse impact upon the sentiment of gratitude, as increasingly people place more importance upon getting what they want than the spirit with which others act on their behalf.
It is no accident surely that the proliferation of entitlements has coincided with the decline of moral objectivity. One of the defining features of moral objectivity is that it identified rights and wrongs that were not determined simply by our desires. Indeed, rights and wrongs were often enough diametrically opposed to our desires. Not only that, it was expected that people would do what is right even though they felt very much inclined to act otherwise.
The decline of moral objectivity created a moral vacuum; and increasingly that moral vacuum has been filled with the desires that people have.
Even moral if the idea of moral objectivity as people once embraced it is indefensible, this much is clear: It is even more indefensible to base entitlements merely upon desires.
In order to have a stable society, there has to be well-defined limits to the claims that people can make upon both society and one another. And that is impossible if desires alone suffice to generate entitlements.
It goes without saying, if course, that not all desires are held to give rise to entitlements. No one thinks, for instance, that the pedophile is entitled to have sexual access to young children merely because he desires them. And this example is telling. For it is not the desires of the child that makes pedophilia wrong, since the typical child is shorn of desires regarding sexuality one way or the other. And certainly pedophilia would be wrong even if most adult human beings did not think so.
More generally, insofar as children should be protected, this truth cannot be ground merely in desires.
The preceding remarks are illuminating in another direction. The very idea of entitlements is supposed to speak to something that is both very deep and precious about human beings. Innocent children can be seen as a representation of this truth. They are surely precious. They cannot speak for themselves; they cannot protect and provide for themselves. Yet, in the spirit of H. L. A. Hart, if there are creatures who have natural rights, surely children do. The present tendency to base entitlements upon desires is at odds with this truth; and that is good reason to think that it is considerably misguided.
Now, there is an interesting irony here. As adults increasingly advance a view of entitlements tied to the satisfaction of their desires, whereby they (the adults) increasingly excuse the ways in which they are neglecting their children, it turns out that children are increasingly feeling less and less gratitude towards their parents.
The sentiment of gratitude requires a nourishing environment; and a world of entitlement based merely upon desires cannot provide any such environment. Indeed, a world of entitlement based merely upon desires is rather like moral quicksand in that it is incapable of withstanding the weight of those obligations that we all owe to one another, whether we like it or not. Gratitude is owed to those who embrace those obligations with grace, goodwill and purity of heart, because their respect for the other has been forged in their loins.